My family and I got back on Friday from one of our summer getaways, and we had a lot of fun.  The sunburns weren't too bad and everyone got plenty of time in the water and on the beach. 

But vacation is also a lot of work when you have small children in your family.  So, I was reminded on vacation what vacation really means for godly dads – an opportunity to serve our families on new, unfamiliar grounds.  And I was reminded of a series of three blog posts about vacations written by someone who is, by all accounts, an outstanding pastor and dad, C.J. Mahaney.  To any dads (or men who one day hope to be dads), I commends these blog posts (written last summer) to you.   

Below are some samples of Mahaney's vacation wisdom: 

Here's what I've learned. The difference between forgettable vacations and unforgettable vacations is not the location or attractions. Nope. The difference between forgettable and unforgettable vacations is the father's attitude and leadership. This makes all the difference... 

How can you most effectively serve your family on vacation? Well, in order to answer this question you must study your family and interview your family. Find out what they would like to do and if possible make it happen, even if it involves just resting and relaxing... 

Fathers, I hope some of the lessons I have learned over the years and the mistakes I've made and sins I've committed on vacation somehow serve you and make a difference in your vacation experience. Before you this summer is a sweet opportunity from God to deepen relationships between family members and create memories that your children will never forget, memories that will outlive you.

You can rest when you get home. 

Read the rest here.